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    This One Factor

    This One Factor Has A Major Impact On How Often You Have Sex

    Use It or Lose It

    By Jessica Migala August 18, 2017



    The beginning of a new relationship may be hot, but then many couples inevitably cool off and are left wondering: Should we be having sex more?

    Turns out, your age (or the age you feel you are) might be the biggest factor in that equation, according to a recent Kinsey Institute report. The 2017 study from The Kinsey Institute, published in the Journal of Sex Research, examined how

    age impacted the frequency of nookie. Over a 10-year span, they examined nearly 1,200 middle aged and older adults, asking them how many times they do it, the “quality” of the sex, and how interested they were in sex. And to determine

    subjective age (a.k.a. the difference between participants’ chronological age and the age they normally feel), they asked the simple question: “Many people feel older or younger than they actually are. What age do you feel most of the time?
    The results? It’s all about your attitude, baby. When people reported that they felt “older,” they were less interested in sex and thought the “quality” of sex was worse. (Add something extra to your sex life with the JimmyJane Form 8 vibe from

    the Women's Health Boutique.)


    Over the decade-long study, people did start to have sex less often, going from 2.52 times over the past six months to 1.8 times. Unsurprisingly, those with chronic health conditions did it less. Plus, those who did it often at the study’s start

    were also having more sex 10 years later. Meaning, your habits now impact those in the future. Use it or lose it, right?

    Feeling younger does your body good outside the bedroom, too. Research finds that those who see themselves as younger than the candles on their birthday cake are healthier and live longer, the researchers point out.

    But that still doesn’t answer how many sex sessions are best. Well, past research suggests that those who knock boots once a week are the happiest—which also happens to be the number WH readers say they do it on average.

    And when you get older, provided you still have health on your side (and, hello, you plan to), you could very well be having sex at that retirement home. WH previously reported on a study that found 32 percent of sexually active women in

    their eighties had sex at least twice a month. Whoa. Do you have some catching up to do?

    Related: This Is the Age When You Have The Best Sex of Your Life

    A roundup of recent sex research from online platform Happify addressed a super-important question: When do people have the best sex of their lives?

    According to people in their 50s and 60s (aka those who would know), the best sex of their lives happened in their 40s—specifically at age 46. Hot dayum!

    However, there’s a good reason to keep knocking boots on the reg: The roundup found that older couples that have regular sex are happier than those who do it less often.

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    Sounds like they took the long road to saying It's All About Attitude.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SteelCool View Post
    Sounds like they took the long road to saying It's All About Attitude.
    Basically

    Contrary to popular there are a lot of people who like being aroused and releasing that
    and that's it...lol

    Not into sex at all

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lushus2One View Post
    Basically

    Contrary to popular there are a lot of people who like being aroused and releasing that
    and that's it...lol

    Not into sex at all
    Glad I aint ran into one of them chicks lmao

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    Eh.. I've had enough sex to last two lifetimes me and the old lady get it in once in awhile but we just happy to share a cup of coffee and talk about people lol
    Last edited by Inhale; 11-24-2017 at 05:48 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Inhale View Post
    Eh.. I've had enough sex to last two lifetimes me and the old lady get it in once in awhile but we just happy to share a cup of coffee and talk about people lol
    And aint a dam thing wrong with that, bruh.
    It's all about whatever works for yall.

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    the older i get the more i appreciate the feminine mystique. i just wish my daddy had warned me.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Maint_Man View Post
    the older i get the more i appreciate the feminine mystique. i just wish my daddy had warned me.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Inhale View Post
    Eh.. I've had enough sex to last two lifetimes me and the old lady get it in once in awhile but we just happy to share a cup of coffee and talk about people lol
    For late 30s early 40s this sounds really old, soon to be birthday boy lol.






    I've been there just to go here before.


    Last edited by PinkPearls; 11-25-2017 at 03:19 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPearls View Post





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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPearls View Post
    For late 30s early 40s this sounds really old, soon to be birthday boy lol.






    I've been there just to go here before.


    Been there ....done that ..it was fun lol..i still like talking dirty though lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by SteelCool View Post
    Glad I aint ran into one of them chicks lmao
    Ummm me neither....I'm talking about men

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lushus2One View Post
    Ummm me neither....I'm talking about men
    Ooooh! I'm slippin Lush lol
    I see what you're saying now.
    I aint gone lie...I've been guilty of that. Sometimes I just wanna bust one and be done. Aint got the strength or desire to put in no real work.
    This is usually after a long, trying day. For me, such a scenario is perfectly suited for HEAD.


 

 

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